There is no shortcut or service that can really tell you what is best. Many families don’t realize that the “experts” that profess to be able to find you the best resources are actually referral services who provide paid leads to senior housing communities that have openings. Choosing care is one task that is truly Do-It-Yourself.
After you tour, setup a second tour so family members can attend and be reassured. Ask your family members what questions they want answered if they are unable to attend.